This is a trustworthy saying, and everyone should accept it: “Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners”—and I am the worst of them all. But God had mercy on me so that Christ Jesus could use me as a prime example of his great patience with even the worst sinners.

1 Timothy 1:15-17 (NLT)

 

A close reading of the gospel reveals that Jesus did not first come with guidelines for correcting people's actions, but rather He actively seeks to correct people's perceptions of God. That is not to argue that Jesus tolerated or overlooked sinful behaviour. This is why He went out to look for people who were far from God and encourages them to follow Him so that they can know the Father. Jesus understands their struggles, but He also recognises that they will not change their behaviour unless and until they encounter the transforming work of God from within.

Jesus accepted these people before He cleansed them of their sins.

Acceptance does not imply agreement with or support for another person's decisions or lifestyle choices. It is about valuing someone and learning to fully understand them, even if you disagree on certain matters. It comes from a place of genuine love, not expecting change as a condition of friendship, but rather viewing change as the fruit of God's Spirit at work in that relationship.

Knowing that Jesus loves them sets them free from their sins and enables them to preach the gospel of His Kingdom and accomplish many amazing things. They overcome racial and gender barriers, as well as cultural pride and prejudice. Similarly, as Christ's beloved, we can do the same for others every day, everywhere.

Learn to accept your friends, neighbours, and coworkers while praying for the grace to love them as Christ loves you. Look for opportunities to grow good friendships with them. Always be patient and believe in God's kairos timing to carry out His will in their lives.