Then those who welcomed [Peter’s] message were baptised, and on that day alone about three thousand souls were added to the number of disciples. They continued steadily learning the teaching of the apostles, and joined in their fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and in prayer.

Acts 2:41-42 (Phillips)

We can learn a lot from the early church about the importance of growing a strong and healthy community. It is crucial for us to learn this lesson because we live in a culture that values individualism and independence. Everyone should have the freedom to be themselves, but this ideal can be easily and quickly twisted to justify selfish behaviour and toxic attitudes. This unbridled spirit of self-indulgence has gone mainstream and is dominating our society today.

The Church was called to be different from the world and resist its cultural trappings and temptations and not dilute our faith in order to be like the world. Instead, we are to imitate Jesus and follow His example of being salt and light in a culture desperately needing authentic conversation and community.

Some believers think they can attend a church without taking part in the community there. That view comes from a consumer mindset rather than a biblical mindset that should shape their faith and belief system. We come to church not to be entertained but to participate with other believers in an expression of love for our Lord and love for one another.

Don’t give up on the church because of a bad experience or personal hurt.

Often it is just that one person or personality who ruins it for everyone. It is true that church can be messy and difficult, but conflict is the price we pay for a deeper level of love and unity. The early church went through lots of painful episodes, but God uses them to make His people gentler, stronger and better prepared for what lies ahead.

If we desire to create a culture of authentic conversation and community, we can learn a few things from the believers of the early church. They were intentional and purposeful in creating opportunities to gather and learn more about the gospel and see firsthand how the gospel can heal and transform lives.

Community is both the answer to lonely individualism and self-centeredness as well as an invitation to experience fulfilling relationships that last. When we intentionally create time and space for people to engage deeply and creatively with God's Word and celebrate Him, we will never cease to be in awe of Him.